
By Kjersti Anfinnsen
In Birgitte Solheim’s experience, love becomes no less demanding even once she reaches ninety. Her life with and feelings for her partner Javiér are just as vivid, even if she is trapped and isolated by physical decline. Her world is limited to the four walls of her home and her daily walk, with little joys and a lot of darkness. Birgitte uncompromisingly reflects on life’s worst moments and what remains with her of loss, grief and bereavement in a world that seems more and more alien to her.
Moments for Eternity is a life-affirming novel about love, death and the loneliness of life, and is the second and final book about retired heart surgeon Birgitte Solheim.
This is a short novel, with short chapters and apt chapter titles. Ought to be read slowly, to enjoy the language. Moments for Eternity is a warm, tender, sad, somewhat witty, charming and very well written novel, highly recommended.
I have just read Moments for Eternity, a bitter and painful, but wonderful novel about a couple marked by aging, decline and death – yes, wonderful! Author Kjersti Anfinnsen, 46 years young, extends a hand to the elderly and humanises our experiences. In doing so, she creates an emotional and mental bond between the generations. She alludes to something I long for – for old age to be normalized, for the stages of life to be recognized.
Sissel Gran, on aging in Morgenbladet